According to Wikipedia this is just a part of what Betrayal means:
An act of betrayal creates a signature constellation, in both its victims and its perpetrators, of negative behaviors, thoughts, and feelings. The interactions are complex. The victims exhibit anger and confusion, and demand atonement from the perpetrator; who in turn may experience guilt or shame, and exhibit remorse. If, after the perpetrator has exhibited remorse or apologized, the victim continues to express anger, this may in turn cause the perpetrator to become defensive, and angry in turn. Forgiveness of betrayal is exhibited by the victim foregoing the demands for atonement and retribution; and is only complete where the victim does not continue to remind the perpetrator of the act, to demand apologies, or to review the incident again and again.
In 2011 there was plenty of betrayal happening to me. There was lots of back stabbing, shit talking, and lies being told. How can you ever trust someone when you feel you have been betrayed by them? I have been trying to figure it out since I started my Blog in January. Writing has been a form of therapy for me since this betrayal became a large part of my life. My best friends and my boyfriend all teamed up together and screwed me over. I can see the boyfriend being a douchebag. It is almost as if I expected the man to sleep with my best friend or something. I guess I just don’t trust men. You can’t blame me with the lies I have been told over the years.
I looked back and read a random page from my journal last May. I said that life was good with me and Derek, he loved me, was committed to our relationship. So on and so on. I have Kathleen Divine who now hates me because I wasn’t at her beck and call and I had a life of my own as well. I have Derek doing all sorts of shady shit behind my back. Everyone knows about Derek and his lies, but no one tells me. It wasn’t until a few days before we broke up I found out part of the story. As Derek is out apartment shopping for him and I, he is also telling Kathleen and Morgan that he isn’t going to really move in with me. I confronted him about this info and told him just tell me the truth. I was being pulled left and right. Derek says I love you, I want to be with you blah blah blah. Kathleen said to me “I tell you this as your best friend he just isn’t the guy for you and he isn’t moving with you. He is going to stay here with me after you leave. He works at my Lounge and he takes care of my dogs.”
Kathleen made sure he was staying by moving him into her office while I was at a doctors appointment. I don’t know about the rest of the world but if some guy lied and used my best friend he wouldn’t be moving across the hall. He would be moving the hell out of my house. I don’t think I have ever been played this badly before. I at least had the tools and the good sense to get the hell out before he killed me. In therapy I learned that lots of women stay and try to work it out. There was nothing to work out. I never go back, they are an ex for a good reason. I didn’t even cry when I broke up with him. I knew it was over but I didn’t know how deeply Kathleen was involved in the situation. She was only thinking about herself in this whole thing. Derek couldn’t afford the rent there and half of the bills…lol It was such a joke to me when Kathleen asked me to stay while she was out of town so that Derek and the Crack head didn’t rob her. Note to Kathleen Divine, look up the word trust, I know you aren't trustworthy but you should at least know the meaning. You also screwed over the one person you could have truly trusted, me.
I wonder if the loss of our friendship has even kept her awake one night? I doubt it. Maybe, when Derek went crazy and wanted to kill me. He was in her kitchen when the nightmare began. She was up till the sun rose on the phone with me and telling me he is having a manic episode. A few days later I went to court and filed for a restraining order. He was still living in her house when he told me he was going to kill me, my parents and the rest of my family. I am not sure I will ever understand what made you choose Derek over me. You picked a stranger over your best friend. I am not sure what evil thing you think I did to you to deserve this but it must be bad in your twisted mind. I guess you feel the need to always have domestic slaves and people who always owe you something. Funny how the shoe is on the other foot and you owe me thousands of dollars and you make the minimum payment possible. I guess living beyond your means has caught up to you. I told you to save money for a rainy day.
The saddest part of this entire nightmare was being betrayed by my best friend. The one person who knows all of my secrets and I know hers. The one person I could call when I was sick and needed some hope. The one person I thought would always have my back. Instead she stabbed me in it. I know in the world of Kathleen Divine she is innocent and only made a few mistakes. She called them bad judgment, but has yet to admit her betrayal of me. Why would anyone be someone's friend for over a decade then just turn on them? As I Blog I see things more clearly. I state the facts that took place in the situations. Thank you Team MoMo supporters. I am thankful for the positive remarks and emails. It has really helped me as I work through all of this. I also get my share of hate mail from Team Kitty Kat. Of course they write in and say what Kathleen tells them to say. It is so scripted it is a total joke. The blog is here to stay. As long as I am breathing I will have all kinds of things to share. One thing I can say is my life has never been boring.
MoMo Out!
In October of 2009 Kathleen Divine put together the Lounge Cruise. I think maybe thirty of us went. I only knew a few of the people who were in our group. Kathleen wanted to stay in the Penthouse suit. Being the diva’s that we are of course we stayed in that room. I paid for my half of the room. At the last moment Kathleen decided she had to bring Jen with us so she could deal with the people in our party and to flat iron her hair everyday. I kid you not, having a hair girl was a must when you have hair down to the bottom of your ass. That was when she was deep into the new hair thing. I made it clear that I was not paying for Jen to go on a cruise and stay in a Penthouse. I have never liked Jen and never will. It is not a secret. I told her straight to her face. The first day I met her she was a bitch and I don’t like it when people talk down to me. You have the wrong woman if you think that will fly with me.
We all had dinner at 8pm as a group. After dinner we had drinks in the ships night club. The day we arrived home from the cruise Kathleen told Jen to get out. Jen had spent most of the cruise telling people that Kathleen treated her like shit. Which was true. Jen was her domestic live in slave at that time. Jen gets kicked out, all is well and peace is back in the house. We met Tracy Melton on the cruise. Tracy was stand offish because Jen was saying all sorts of shit about me and Kathleen. People seem to think I am in some way like Kathleen because I was her friend. People didn’t take the time to even get to know me to find out for themselves. I have heard it so many times since the friendship ended. “You were here BFF so how could I tell you?” I wish some of you had said something. Maybe it wouldn’t have gone on as long as it did and still is. Besides the fact that Jen was on the cruise in my personal space I managed to have fun. When I last spoke to Kathleen she asked me if I have any happy memories left from our friendship. There was so much bad I would have to dig deep, real deep. I will let you know when something happy comes back to my memory.
Shortly after the cruise Tracy and her friends started coming to the Lounge. Kathleen offered Tracy a job working the door with Lauren. At some point Lauren had no car so Tracy would drive all the way to Kathleen's house to pick up the lounge stuff and Lauren. This went on for a really long time. Tracy was also instructed by Kathleen to show up early so that she could make sure her makeup was done to her standards. Tracy had to bring extra clothes or borrow something from me when Kathleen hated her outfit. I would always help Tracy out with clothes if she needed something. Once or twice Kathleen asked me to do Tracy’s makeup. I gave it a try but I am only good at doing my own makeup. The new rules started to happen for Tracy. Tracy was instructed by Kathleen that she couldn’t be friends with the customers. Yet several of Tracy’s friends came to the Lounge because Tracy was there. You can’t flirt with any men, but I want you to be nice to all the customers. You can’t date anyone from the Lounge. You can’t be friends outside of the Lounge with anyone just in case something happens. You have to promote on line every week. You have to get as many people as you can to come to the Lounge that you meet on line. Your FB status must always say single, in case a guy wants to come to the Lounge to meet you. The rules were what ever Kathleen wanted them to be.
Kathleen told Tracy that she would be so pretty if she just lost 100lbs. Yes my fellow fatties, the promoter of a Size Acceptance Lounge is a hater of fatties and not to mention a hypocrite. More than once Kathleen said things like this to Tracy. She would talk about her clothes, her hair, her makeup. Tracy would get bitched at if there was a cute guy and he wasn’t told to sit in Kathleen’s reserved section. Jen would make the rounds and find men for Kathleen to meet. I was told, “It’s my Lounge I get first choice and if you don’t like it stay home.” Yes my friends it was Kathleen's way or no way at all 100% of the time. Tracy worked hard and did everything with a smile. She never talked back or had an attitude. I on the other hand would go to bat for her all the time. I told Kathleen she is sweating because she is running back and forth working at your Lounge and the A/C sucks ass in there. It is hot as hell in there for people of size. Half of the time Tracy would get sent home early so that Kathleen could save money. She would make maybe $5.00 after gas and the back and forth driving out of her way. I asked Tracy why she stayed for a year and a half of hell. Tracy told me that she fell in love with the people. Once upon a time I used to love the people there too.
Once I saw what the men were about it just became a joke. Men would move from woman to woman all night long. Yes people the random BJ’s in the parking lot is true. I was leaving one night and it was happening in the car parked next to me. I had heard the rumors but had not seen it till then. Tracy’s job was to check wristbands as people came and went. Kathleen told her “You’re big and scary like security. They won’t sneak past you.” Kathleen talks about everyone behind their back. If she is in the mood to be even bitchier she will tell you in a passive aggressive way. This is what she refers to as being matter of fact. LOL really? It is called you’re a bitch syndrome and in denial about being Bi-polar. I believe it was mid March when Derek aka The Douchebag started doing security by the front door and Tracy was helping Lauren work the door. I had no idea at the time but he was telling Kathleen that Tracy wasn’t doing her job. She was texting the count as instructed and he made it seem like she was just messing around. One night the drawer was short and Kathleen demanded Tracy work for free to pay it back. I do not for one minute believe Tracy did anything wrong. She counted out before she switched over. Kathleen didn’t ever complain when the drawer was over. Which happens from time to time. Last time that I know about, the cash was over by $180.00. She was happy then but always talked shit when mistakes happened.
Shortly after the Douchebag started working at the Lounge Tracy was moved to guard the side door. Inside sitting next to the speaker is where she was put. The noise was too much so they moved her outside of the side door. Kathleen believed people were getting in the side door. You can only exit the side door and wrist bands are checked. It was just too much for Tracy at this point. She quit which is what Kathleen wanted her to do anyway. Kathleen didn’t want to fire her in case she needed backup for Lauren to get to work. Lauren got a car shortly before Tracy quit. Kathleen made it hell for Tracy. She told her she didn’t want her at the front door. What she was really saying is “I don’t want you in my Lounge so let me stick you outside by the side door”. Tracy and I are still friends and I did talk to her and ask her if she was cool with me doing a Blog on what happened to her. She said she had no issues because I was there and saw it all happen anyway. You still have your real friends Tracy and the Lounge will be gone one day. The bad memories of how you were verbally abused and criticized weekly will fade. Life is short take care of yourself and know your self worth. I am so glad you said enough. Kathleen Divine is a very abusive person and anyone who says other wise is misinformed. What’s left of the Entourage has also been verbally abused by Kathleen more than once. Yet they stay. They will one day say enough as well. No one stays as long as I did. I wanted to believe she was that cool person I met over 15 years ago. I no longer know who she is as a person. What I do know is not positive and Kathleen Divine is toxic.
MoMo out!
Mo & Tracy xoxo
Derek W. Peter arrested on a R/O violation only served four days but sentenced to thirty five. He is still stalking me and wants to kill me. Ladies watch out for him. My restraining order is good for five years. He lives in OC not far from the Lounge.
It was 1999 or 2000 when Kathleen Divine came out with her pay site Inesque.com. Kathleen Divine was a topless model on her site and did web cam shows for a fee of course. Kathleen also hired and shot photos of other web models. I owned Moniquessbbw.com and worked alone for my pay site and cam shows. I was a cover girl for Dimensions Magazine April 1996. The three of us have done our share of photo shoots, cam shows, videos etc. For some reason when Lisa got the cover of Big Butt magazine, Kathleen thought she could use it against her. I was in Big Black Butt magazine once upon a time are you going to use that against me? Who knows and who cares. Each site contained different content and we all had our own fan base. The three of our sites were different in their own way, but the end result was still a happy one.
When Kathleen Divine is pressed up against a wall she will flat out deny that her site was not adult in any way. I do believe topless is considered adult. If you have to click enter after you read the disclaimer then it is an adult site. All three sites were of an adult nature. Kathleen Divine has a huge chip on her shoulder about Lisa. Kathleen has gone to great lengths to make Lisa her enemy. If Kathleen changed her hair color she would check out the Club Bounce website to see if Lisa had a new hair color as well. Kathleen seems to think that Lisa is trying to be her and live her life. Kathleen thinks that Lisa will do anything to be her. I can tell you that I seriously doubt that Lisa changed her hair color or the length of her hair because of Kathleen. She just feels the need to out do Lisa. You can’t out do someone with goals of success and succeeding is what Club Bounce has done and been doing.
Why does Kathleen Divine have so much hate and envy for Lisa? I know the answer and I am going to tell you. Kathleen has Narcissistic personality disorder. I may not be a Doctor but I have been in therapy long enough to see the signs. I have spent many sessions discussing my former friendship with Kathleen to see if it was me or my fault in some way. It wasn't and Kathleen is just as crazy as her Bipolar relative's. I strongly believe the reason Kathleen has so much hate inside of her is because she is truly an evil person. There isn't always good in everyone. Some people are just evil. Kathleen always says “I will for sure get into heaven for helping all of these fat people.” Kathleen also says the reason her foot has cysts and bone spurs is because of fat people stepping on her feet all the years the Lounge has been open. Yes my fellow fatties it is our fault for getting drunk and stepping on her delicate feet. Blame the fatties for any and everything. Those same fatties pay your bills, keep that in mind the next time you show off your BMW that your dating site pays for. Or as you walk around feeling entitled and that you aren't fat at all. The scale reads over 200 and with your height and weight your BMI is considered Obese. Keep it real faker just because you shop in the Juniors department for things that stretch does not make you thin.
Kathleen Divine has gone to great lengths to try and have Club Bounce shut down. Kathleen doesn't understand that Lisa built her own following. The majority of Club Bounce goers have never even heard of the Lounge. These are Club goers not Lounge people. If you want to Lounge and have no dress code you can do that at home for free. Kathleen calls Bounce her spin off Club. I have no idea how that is even possible. Lisa never worked for Kathleen. Lisa has been to the Lounge long before she opened her own Club. I use to try and reason with Kathleen and tell her there is room for all the Size Acceptance Clubs. Kathleen thinks the Lounge should be the only place in town. If you want a fast food burger then you know that there are several choices out there. Do you think Burger King is worried about what Jack in the Box is doing? Hell No, they are working on their own marketing plan to make more money. If Kathleen was smart she would have done the same thing.
Even when bounce was closed and moving locations the Lounge did not have a larger number of people. Her numbers are the same and they aren't good. That is the entire reason Kathleen has Mommy and Daddy to help pay her bills each month when she is short. This is also why I agreed to help her when her Lounge was about to die. If you only get 103 people then business is bad. In its hay day the Lounge had 400 people on any given Saturday night. Let’s not forget when the Lounge was in Brea for a hot minute and Kathleen was doing Friday and Saturday nights. Double the fun and double the money. Kathleen has not saved one dime and blows more money than a drug addicted retired Rock star who is still trying to hold onto the fame. The Fame is long gone Ms. Divine and people see the real you. It has been almost 10 years that you have been faking the funk. You have had loads of drama over that decade. All of which you denied when people called you out publicly on Yahoo and AOL when we all use to chat on there. When My space and Facebook came along then more and more people learned the truth.
In 2010 Kathleen instructed Jen her live in domestic slave AKA her personal assistant to gather info on Lisa. There was a rumor of a reality show about Club Bounce and Kathleen was pissed off that it wasn't her. Kathleen had Jen write to True TV and email them photos of Lisa from her pay site and a copy of her Big Butt Magazine Cover. I told her I wanted nothing to do with it. She also had Jen email the OC Register about Lisa when they did a story about Club Bounce. Kathleen’s ex boyfriend was also in the paper and gave a comment about how much he loved Club Bounce. That made her blood boil. Kathleen went into evil mode. Kathleen is a complete bitch, but she feels if she has other people do her evil bidding then she is innocent. I think your days of innocence are long gone if you ever had any. If the Lounge isn't making enough money then get a real job so you can pay me back the thousands of dollars you owe me. Last month Kathleen paid $79.00 on a bill that is over $4000.00. I think she is waiting for me to die from any one of my illnesses so she won’t have to pay her bill. I almost forgot the Bomb threat she had someone call in. She called the LB PD more than once making shit up. Kathleen tried the drug dealer in the club approach, that didn't work. Kathleen called the hotel and spoke to the manager making shit up about Club Bounce. At one point Kathleen said Lisa had a hit out on her, LMAO really Kathleen?
The one person Kathleen would never challenge is Shadoe, owner of Club Curves. I have known Lisa and Shadoe for at least 15 years. I told Kathleen once, “Don’t fuck with Shadoe, she may be white on the outside but she will cut you like a sista.” Since then she turned her focus onto Lisa and now me. Kathleen is having her people write me hate mail. The things they are saying to me no one else knows. Nice try Kathleen, but I am not afraid of you or anyone else. I have died three times already. There is nothing you can say or do to me that will scare me or make me stop writing my Blog. I could go on and on but we will save it for another Blog on another day. If I was Lisa I would become a member of the “Slap a Hoe tribe”, so I could slap the blonde out of Kathleen’s hair. Yes I said HO with an E. Lisa has never once went public against Kathleen even though she was being stalked by Ms. Divine. I just did it for you Lisa. The truth and nothing but the truth here on my Blog.
MoMo out!
Drunk after the Lounge.
Click on the link in my Blog for more details about this condition. All of the info below apply to Kathleen Divine.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder in which the individual is described as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity. First formulated in 1968, it was historically called megalomania, and it is closely linked to egocentrism.
Symptoms of this disorder include, but are not limited to:
- Reacts to criticism with anger, shame, or humiliation
- May take advantage of others to reach their own goal
- Tends to exaggerate their own importance, achievements, and talents
- Imagines unrealistic fantasies of success, beauty, power, intelligence, or romance
- Requires constant attention and positive reinforcement from others
- Easily becomes jealous
- Lacks empathy and disregards the feelings of others
- Obsessed with oneself
- Mainly pursues selfish goals
- Trouble keeping healthy relationships
- Is easily hurt and rejected
- Sets unrealistic goals
- Wants "the best" of everything
- Appears as tough-minded or unemotional
It has been almost a year since I walked away from the drama. The drama followed me, stalked me, harassed me and even tried to kill me. You would think if Kathleen Divine was truly a friend she would have had my back. Kathleen did not have my back. The majority of the drama was caused by her and the rest of the BFL Mafia. Jessica use to be my chubby buddy and work out with me. Kathleen didn’t like that so she joined us at the gym. Laura and Jessica were BFF’s at the time. Fiona is Laura’s Mom. Morgan was my friend till she decided to stick with Kathleen. When this friendship ended Kathleen told everyone to choose a side. If you didn’t choose then you were out. Jessica is not stupid she was there for the Egg Macmuffin incident. The creamer bottle flew right by her face and she was left speechless. She was done after that and never came back. Morgan was in for the long haul and stuck by Kathleen. Morgan has no idea how evil Kathleen is and will be to her one day as well. Kathleen use to talk mad shit about Morgan and call her all sorts of names. All of a sudden Morgan is the new token black friend. Whew, at least it isn’t me anymore. Kathleen Divine is one of the most insecure people you will ever meet. Everything about her is fake even the tracks and individuals in her hair that is fried. I am not one to talk about a weave since I have one but she really needs to face reality and get a real do.
I love new hair, makeup, lashes, lingerie, cool clothes the works. Being a diva is fun for a night out. Do I feel the need to be a diva daily? Hell no! I am not fake, I don’t even wear makeup unless I am going out to a club or party etc. I am not in denial about who I am in anyway. I am grounded and know I am not perfect. I am a work in progress that can only get better. Kathleen Divine use to make everyone feel like shit when they arrived at her house on Saturday nights. One night she told Jess that if she wasn’t dressed in theme she couldn’t be in the entourage anymore. Laura begged her to stay. Jess was ready to get her bag and go home. Kathleen seems to think she is the best looking woman in her Lounge. I almost said club but it isn’t a club. Clubs have dress codes and security that isn’t drunk every Saturday night. Let me be clear I am talking about Mark the Lounge manager and the job title is a joke. He is her mandatory employee according to the Bar owner. It just makes me laugh when I think about my lines every Saturday. They were the same and I know them by heart.
K: How do I look?
M: You look hot.
K: I look fat.
M: No you don’t and so what you run a Size Acceptance Lounge.
K: You’re right Mo, I will be the smallest one when we get there.
M: Then what are you worried about just get ready and become Ms Divine.
K: I need someone to help me get dressed. Lauren pick out my clothes and lay them on the bed then I will decide later.
M: Lauren how do you deal with her shit? No answer from Lauren because it is just best to not say anything.
K: Mo will you come look at this outfit? How is it?
M: You look good, you always look good. What shoes are you going to wear? Quick subject change to get her mind off of her bad body image issues.
K: I am going to wear my sexy shiny boots.
M: Good idea I love those boots they look hot.
K: Why do I pay Lauren to do my hair if I have to fix it before I go out anyway?
M: That is your choice and if you didn’t buy tracks down to your ass you could do your own hair. Maybe go down a few inches next time.
K: Why do I even bother to pay her I end up fixing it myself anyway.
M: You get what you pay for, if you don’t like it go see Shirley your hair dresser.
K: I won’t pay her to wash and flat iron my hair.
M: Yet again you get what you pay for. If you hate it change it. I know how much you hate change so live with it for now. Who else is going to come to your house, do your hair color and the works for the pennies you pay her.
IMO Lauren deserves more respect and way more money. She does have her license to do hair. I am sure she does this for Kathleen because she needs the money to live just like everyone else. I can tell you this I would never put up with her shit for any amount of cash. Kathleen will work her for over 12 hours every Saturday night. Her day starts at 3pm and ends at 3 or 4am most Saturdays. Much respect to you Lauren for hanging in there as long as you have. I know if she wasn’t sort of family you would be gone by now.
This would go on from around 9pm till we left the house at 11:30ish. Of course as soon as Fiona and Laura arrived they would have to stroke her ego and tell her how good she looked. If Morgan was there she would also have to say how good Kathleen looked. When the driver arrived he would also have to tell her over and over for at least 30 minutes how good she looked. It took hours to get out of the house. If the numbers were low we didn’t get there till midnight most Saturday nights. If you own a business you need to be there for your customers. I was so impressed when I went to Bounce the first time and Lisa was working her own door. That is a real business woman there. Not someone who is faking the entire thing. When I went to Club Curves Shadoe was at her door to greet me. I have no idea why she thinks she is above working her own Lounge. I guess that is the life of an ageing fake diva. I rather be real. I know I am not perfect but I am me 100% of the time. Take it or leave it, your choice. I am so glad Jessica and I were able to form a solid friendship. Kathleen and Laura didn’t want us to become friends for some odd reason. When things are meant to be they are meant to be. I can’t stand the fact that Kathleen to this day pretends to give a shit about me. I can’t stand the fact that she believes her own lies. If you believe it then it isn’t a lie when you say it. For the last year she has been making the minimum payment on the credit card she ran up in my name. If you are such a success then pull the money out of your ass and pay it off. Oh wait you are full of shit so your shit smells just like anyone else’s shit.
How can Kathleen be friends with Fiona after she slept with my ex in our bed across the hall from Kathleen? Kathleen lied to my face when I asked her about it. I just wanted to see if she was going to lie and she did. Liar Liar pants on fire. The dysfunction and the toxic energy is fading slowly. I am still waiting for my stalker to get arrested. Kathleen called me to tell me he left town. I doubt that. For all I know she moved him back in with her or Fiona is paying his bills so her husband doesn’t find out she is a dirty whore. Laura you are just a spoiled want to be rich kid from Santa Ana who moved to Irvine. Another fake bitch in the making thanks to a doormat Mother and Kathleen Divine your other mother. I know you read my Blog and I even posted your comment. I bet you though I wouldn’t, but I did just for you. I hope you feel special for a moment because you look really stupid. Clueless is more like it. If you don’t get it or see it by now I can’t help you. To Kathleen Divine people are disposable and men are meant to be used for any dollar amount they can afford. I had a good laugh when she had to pay for her lovers cab ride home one Sunday morning. By the way he never paid her back as promised. I guess you paid $50.00 to get laid LMAO! You deserve everything that is happening to you. I am just here keeping it real.
MoMo out!
The former BFL Mafia click to enlarge.
I have been to so many bashes in the last 15 years that I have lost count. I have traveled all over the USA to sell my clothing line www.BigGirlGear.com at these Bashes. I know how much hard work goes into throwing a Bash. The promoters work endlessly to get all of the details down so that the Bash attendees will be happy. It is a good place to make new friends. After a while you start to see these friend every year at these events. The entire Bash idea is wonderful. It brings us together within the Size Acceptance Community. Without these Bashes some of us would be home alone and unable to get out of the house. At least at the Bash you can roll into a party on a scooter and no one is going to look at you and shake their head in disgust. What they will be saying is, Who is the hottie on the scooter? No matter your size or any limitations the promoters make sure you are in a safe and comfortable environment. Of course there will be lots of good looking men and women at these events who want to make new friends. Why the hell not have an unforgettable time. How unforgettable it gets is up to you and always be safe. If we all can come together and spread the word about this Bash it will be “HUGE” no pun intended. There is nothing better than when a Bash takes over an entire hotel and I know this will be the case. The energy around this bash is contagious. People are booking flights and the rooms are going fast. I know all of the OC locals will be there to represent. The BFL should just not even bother to open that weekend. The vendor fair is open to the public so definitely come out and shop. Please support the vendors who bring you those special items you won’t find at a plus size chain store. I know that I work hard to bring you one of a kinds and originals. It is also on a long holiday weekend so no one has to work on Monday. I can hardly wait to get into that indoor pool at the hotel. I know the guys do not want to miss hot confident BBW’s and SSBBW’s in a bikini at the pool. Need I say more people! Visit www.orangecountybbwbash.com for complete info and to sign up right on line. I hope to see you all there and we will party like rock stars.
MoMo out!
