Sex, Lies & Cheating

How many times do you have to fall in love and have your heart broken before you find “the one” that will cherish and protect your heart? I have no idea, I gave up on that a long time ago. No matter what advice or rule book you have read in the past you never know what peoples intensions are. Their actions must speak louder than any sweet talk he or she might throw your way. It is ok to say no. Never settle for the second best because he or she told you that’s all you can get. People don’t know very much these days about personal interaction. I think that people have become socially retarded due to media and technology. We have become disconnected from one another. People break up via email, text message, Facebook and even Twitter. Why do people think that kind of behavior is ok? Because you put up with it. If you learn to say hell no and stop putting up with crap from not so nice people you could have a chance at happiness with the right person.

How many men and women stay after they find out their partner has cheated on them? From things I have learned in therapy most women stay with a cheating partner. When the woman cheats the men almost always leave. I have been lied to and cheated on more than once. I have never gone back to any of them. I am very serious with my number one rule. You cheat on me it is OVER. No need to explain, no need to bother lying, no need to ever talk again. When it is over for me it is over. I have no need to try and forget he cheated on me. Not only is it a fucked up thing to do but you are also putting your partners life in danger. Something I don’t think people think about in the heat of the affair.

True story,the moment I think I might give a guy a chance he does something like want to sleep with me and ask for my friends number. Then when confronted, he bold face lies about it. I had to think for one second and my gut said he just lied to you. As I process the information that was just given to me, I hung up the phone and was not in shock at all. I have become jaded to the point where I expect a man to do something shady like that. I asked if it was true, he lied, I left. End of that story. I didn’t want to listen to his bullshit anymore. I just tuned him out as he was lying to me. It is so sad when men go to such lengths to try and sleep with you then they try and sleep with your friend. I am really glad it happened with a friend that I can trust and had no doubt that she said hell no.

Kathleen Divine would have fucked him and said “sorry Mo but he was really into me not you”. Kathleen Divine wouldn’t even think twice about it. I can’t tell you how many times I was told that a guy I was talking to was flirting with her just moments before. You have to be so insecure to even feel the need to try that move. We all know from past Blogs I have written that Kathleen Divine is very insecure, narcissistic, condescending and a washed up ageing Diva who now lives in a Senior Mobile Home Park next door to her parents. I guess business isn’t as good as it use to be. If it was still good I am sure Ms. Divine wouldn’t be forced to live in a trailer park.  I bet when you look in the mirror of your new bathroom you wonder WTF happened to my life. I can tell you some of what happened Ms. Divine.

Kathleen Divine became a selfish, self centered, evil bitch. I bet you still wonder how you will find husband number 5 living in a trailer park. I know this because you told me when your parents first suggested the idea a couple of years ago. Instead of saving some of that tax free money you have made over the last decade you decided to wipe your ass with it. That’s how rich you were back in your hay day. Kathleen Divine always say, “I’m not stupid” but in real life you did fuck yourself royally. Now that you are out of the house in Orange what will you do with the $7600.00 deposit that you have on the house? My guess is you will blow it like it is tissue paper. The responsible thing to do is pay me back all that you owe me. But we all know Kathleen Divine does what is best for her and only her. The drama between us now has a court date. I know I will win so I have no worries. Then the Sheriff will come to her lounge and take her money right from the door as she makes it till I am paid back. You all should know by now that nothing is easy when dealing with Kathleen Divine. She has turned this into a Lifetime movie of the week. All I wanted was for her to do the right thing since she use to once be my best friend. I am still trying to remember the good times we had as you asked. It’s hard to do when the bad is still so hurtful and outweighs any good there once was.
MoMo Out!