Random Losers and the Douchebag of the Week #3

Complete strangers from all over the world waste their time sending me messages. I sure as hell know I wouldn’t say any of the things these men say. I wonder if they really think I am going to write back with enthusiasm? We already know they are not all there mentally. All of the red lights are flashing. They say warning don’t ever respond. You can see what happens when I was bored and responded to one message. Thanks everyone for all of the funny feedback on the Douchebag of the week Blog posts.

• Tom Dapper

hi

• 4:26 AM
• Me hi
  
• Tom Dapper cool
  
• Tom Dapper u looking so sweet
  
• 4:30 AM
• Tom Dapper sweet looking
  
• 4:31 AM
• Me thanks
  
• Tom Dapper ur welcome
  
• Tom Dapper can we chat on yahoo messenger
  
• 4:36 AM
• Me no i am going to bed in few min
  
• Me send me a message here with your contact info for another time
  
• Tom Dapper ok
  
• Me where are you from?
  
• 4:39 AM
• Tom Dapper Im Tom Dapper from south africa i work in bank as auditor
  
• Tom Dapper u?
  
• Me don't bother sending me your info
  
• Me good by
  
• ERIC hi
  
• What's on your mind?

Andrea Drakovich

• 
  September 2
  Andrea Drakovich
  
  • helloo
• 
  Tuesday
  Monique
  
  • Hello?
• 
  Tuesday
  Andrea Drakovich
  
  • how are you?
    
  • where are you from
    
  • can you add me please
• 
  Yesterday
  Monique
  
  • Who are you and why do you want me to add you?
• 
  Yesterday
  Andrea Drakovich
  
  • i want to be friends with you
   Milos Mesi Slavkovic

• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • ARE YOU HEAR BABY
• 
  September 5
  Monique
  
  • Hi who are you and why are you calling me baby?
• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • I AM THE Milos from Serbia, and many are beautiful and sexy
    
  • you
    
  • are you hear baby
    
  • baby
    
  • baby
    
  • are you hear baby
  

• September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • i want see you
    
  • please
    
  • you sooo hottt baby
• 
  September 5
  Monique
  
  • You live very far from the USA. I am sure you can meet someone closer to home, don't you think?
• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • nooo baby
    
  • i live in Las vegas
    
  • I'm in love Las Vegas, I was just in Serbia but in las vegas work
    
  • i want see you in camera
    
  • please
    
  • baby
    
  • tell me
   Milos Mesi Slavkovic

• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • ARE YOU HEAR BABY
  

• September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • I AM THE Milos from Serbia, and many are beautiful and sexy
    
  • you
    
  • are you hear baby
    
  • baby
    
  • baby
    
  • are you hear baby
  
  

• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • i want see you
    
  • please
    
  • you sooo hottt baby
  

• September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • nooo baby
    
  • i live in Las vegas
    
  • I'm in love Las Vegas, I was just in Serbia but in las vegas work
    
  • i want see you in camera
    
  • please
    
  • baby
    
  • tell me
• 
  September 5
  Monique
  
  • Tell you what?
• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • are you hear
• 
  September 5
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • baby are you hear
• 
  September 6
  Monique
  
  • Why are you trying to contact me so badly? What do you want from me?
• 
  September 6
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • are you hear
• 
  September 7
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • are you hear baby
• 
  September 7
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • baby are you hear
• 
  September 8
  Milos Mesi Slavkovic
  
  • baby
    
  • baby are you hear
   

Rattikarn Noraheem

• I love you bigledy wow:-)

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• Jesse Jenkins
  
  • hey was up
• 
  9 minutes ago
  Monique
  
  • Hello.
• 
  8 minutes ago
  Jesse Jenkins
  
  • what is u number i text u
• 
  8 minutes ago
  Monique
  
  • I don't give my number to strangers. Who are you?
• 
  7 minutes ago
  Jesse Jenkins
  
  • my name is jesse
• 
  6 minutes ago
  Monique
  
  • Tell me something I don't know.
• 
  6 minutes ago
  Jesse Jenkins
  
  • what u want know about me
• 
  
• 
  6 minutes ago
  Monique
  
  • Why are you asking for my number?
  

• 7 minutes ago
  Jesse Jenkins
  
  • i am sorry
• 
  7 minutes ago
  Monique
  
  • LOL you aren't answering any of my questions
    
  • what are you sorry for?
    
  • I see you have communication issues already...lol I will pass on the texting.
  

Sunday
Manni Chandel

1. hi dear like to b in ur frd list

Tsh SixEighty i like big girl
Saturday at 9:27am ·

• Conversation started Monday
• 
  10:05pm
  Delove Telfer
  
• Monique you sexy woman with good features, good wholesome figure having right noticeable curves at the right places , and has a beautiful smile that is the most sexy thing in a woman. In short YOU!

1:16am
Md Hossain

• hi dear................................?

• 
  3:28am
  Allen Simon
  
  
  Hi xxx ;) I have a big gear for you Biggirl baby :) it's all yours honey :)
  Thanks
  
• 
  3:47am
  Allen Simon
  
  
  Honey am so proud to be your friend I love to hug n kiss Biggirls ;)
  
• November 7
• 
  10:21pm  
  Allen Simon
  
  
  Wanna buy biggirl Gear baby xxx ;)
  
  

11:14am
Adebola Adele

• Hi sugar cake,  i luv ur look.am in luv wit u

October 8, 2012
Kamar Mahdy

• helo hony how r u ? u r so sweet and pretty and i want to be a friend i will wait u r add i will be glad for that hzve a nice time my dear

November 7, 2012
Allen Simon

• Nice

November 12, 2012
Kelvinam Hood

• Hi, nice to meet u please i love u so much & i will make u my queen, please call me +2348036029532 & my email. Kelvinamacha@ymail.com, thanks i'm waiting to hear from u.

November 13, 2012
Brave Lupo

• Hello
  you are cute and lovely,,,and for the respect in facebook friend ..
  ill ask you to have your permission to add me to your facebook
  to be your friend ......kisses Lupo

November 21, 2012
Osito Faraon

• hello princess

December 5, 2012
Promise Aku Ukarenuze

• my name is promise aku i Lives in BENIN REPUBLIC.i need a good for me to Marrie as you are and MY Spirit body and soul is in love with u, i will forever love and cherish u as a diamond stone found in

• hi
  
• issac issac watching "behind the scene in porn moives"
  
• issac issac lol
  
• issac issac on wolftube
  
• issac issac :-D
  
• 3:50 AM
• issac issac are u watchint it too?
  
• 3:54 AM

• issac issac lol lol lol
  
• issac issac go on lolliying it Monkey Monique
  
• • 3:54 AM
  • issac issac faboulous picts
    
  • issac issac are u in the gallery too
    
  • 4:22 AM
  • issac issac has disconnected and can't receive instant messages.

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Cyber Stalkers

New comment on My Stalker is Back. ‏12/30/12

Happy New Year Baby-- Rot in Hell MoMo.
Happy New Year Baby-- Rot in Hell MoMo. has left a new comment on your post "My Stalker is Back":
Oh puhlease.... What a crock of shit. U are a lonely, bitter woman. Derek is not stalking you. He has a new gf I saw them together 2 weeks ago. There is no way you are anywhere on his mind--unless u fucked him over for some money and posted info all over a blog. Then went and advertised said blog for everyone to see. You are so full of shit Monique. I hope one day you realize how pathetic you and pull this entire blog down. When you google all these former "friends" this stupid blog pops up. How horrific for some of these people. I'm SO GLAD I never got close to u so you could run your mouth about me. I would not lay down like Lori Kathleen Fiona etc. I'd come up to Palmdale and beat the shit out of your fat ass. Happy new year LOSER. Lol Derek stalking u. So hilarious. He wouldn't even fuck you, why in the world would he stalk u!!!!
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Posted by Happy New Year Baby-- Rot in Hell MoMo. to MoMo BBW Brown at December 30, 2012 3:08 PM
After reading this I know it is someone on Team Kitty Kat. It might even be from the Divine one herself. It could be Laura because she is obsessed with my Blog. It is sick and flattering all at the same time. We all know Team Kitty Kat reads my Blog, stalks my Blog and stalks my Facebook page. I know this because I know the behavior of the minions who still kiss her ass just to be part of an entourage that gathers in the senior mobile home park. I have been so ready to walk away and never look back. I can now that the lawsuit is over and done with but the bullshit hasn’t stopped. Team Kitty Kat will do and say anything they can to hurt me. At least the Divine one can’t ever say I fucked her over for money, since I am the one who won in court. Maybe people have fucked you over in the past due to how you treat them. I tried to be the best friend that I could be. You can only get stabbed in the back one to many times before you bleed to death. I love my life without The Divine one and the entourage in it so much. My real friends stuck by me and are there for me when I need them to be. My real friends don’t ever judge me, and they don’t just tell me what they think I want to hear. I love them for letting me be me. They don’t call me bad names. They don’t tell lies about me on line to random strangers. One day the minions will be replaced with new ones. The lounge will be closed one day and the circle of bullshit, drama, verbal abuse, hate, lies and contempt will all disappear. Like dust in the wind. That entire group of people are dead to me. It is so sick that you all still send me hate mail. You never have the guts to say who you really are. I will keep this Blog forever. It will forever come up when you Google different names, topics etc. It never had to end like this. That is all on you not me. Google should show you just how popular my Blog is and I am very proud of it. Maybe if you and all of the other insane people around you didn’t wish me dead I might see you as human. You no longer poses the ability to behave like a human being. There is always a twist, turn, flip, flop, lies to cover other lies and some sort of hustle is involved. I don’t know you anymore nor do I want to. If I ever see you somewhere lets not pretend. Just do not speak to me. Act like we don’t see one another. The evil in your dead heart is eating you alive one day at a time. Life and time wait for no one, so I will just keep on doing what I do. I stand behind everything I have published on my Blog. I stand up for myself. 
MoMo Out!

My Stalker is Back

Let’s have a brief recap shall we. September 2011 my ex Derek Peter who I left in July of 2011 decides to start harassing, stalking and threatening to kill me and my family. He sent emails, text messages, left voice mails, slashed my tires, drained all of the oil out of my truck, tried to run me off the freeway, verbally and emotionally abused me. I filed a restraining order, had him served and he didn’t show up for court so I was granted a permanent restraining order good for the next 5 years. I have had way to many sleepless nights over the last year to count. Derek has been in and out of jail over the last year. Some of it was for violating the restraining order the rest was his own drug issues. He is Bi-polar and not on his meds. He is addicted to anything he can snort or smoke. He was medicated, had a job, car, place to live etc. Seemed normal then one day he flipped out and I left the next day. My life was in danger and I knew it. I was backed into the kitchen counter with a butcher block full of knives. Due to the fact that he is 6’6” he could have easily reached for a knife and stabbed me before I knew it happened. In one of his many hate filled voice mails he said and I quote “I am going to gut you like a fish.” He loves to fish and had a knife collection. The system failed me in every way. He served hardly any time for all of the torture he put me through and all of the criminal threats. If Derek was a black man he would have received the seven to ten year sentence that a criminal threats case carried. Instead he was sentenced to ninety days with three years probation. His criminal past is public record on the Superior Court site.

Tuesday December 18, 2012 at 11:15am my alarm goes off. Time to get up and get ready to head out. The house phone rings around 11:30am. My Mom answers the phone and a man asked if my Dad was home. She asked who was calling and he told said an old Army buddy. My Dad takes the call because he helps out Veterans all of the time. The man asked if I still lived here, if I moved out, is the address still the same? My Dad can’t get the guy to tell him who he is so he hangs up on him. The caller ID said the Hilton, Costa Mesa. My Mom calls back the hotel and asks for Derek Peter, after a brief hold she was connected to his room. How did he just get out of jail and is now living in the Hilton? Last Friday I got a call from a friend that said they ran into him at the Social Services office. We called the Sheriff right after the second call from the douchebag. He called my Dad over and over for God knows how man hours today. He recorded all of the calls and played it for the Sheriff when they arrived at our home 4 hours after being called. I guess if it was a bloody crime scene they would have been here sooner. Now Derek Peter is stalking my Dad. Stalking a Vietnam Veteran who was blown up in the war, woke up in a body bag because they said he was dead is NOT and I repeat Not a good idea. Did I mention he also has PTSD from the war. Derek is barking up the wrong tree. The Sheriff took the report and now we wait for the bullshit with the Detective the case will be assigned to and the DA from hell out here who doesn’t seem to think domestic violence cases are a priority. They will also pull the county line bullshit. I live in LA County he is in Orange County so who should arrest him is a game the Sheriff and the OCPD like to play.

Derek told my Dad to meet him on our porch at 4pm because there will be blood. My parents are retired and not in the best of health. My mom and I both have Lupus and my Dad suffers from war wounds till this day. I can’t and I wont go through what I lived through since last year. I am stronger than when it started. I know Derek is one mentally deranged and unstable person. The alarm system is set, I live across the street from a Police officer, I asked Santa for a 9mm for Christmas. Both my parents are trained how to shoot their guns. My Mom may be small but her 9mm can speak for her if he broke into our house. I am not going to let the anxiety consume me. I am going to watch my back as I have done everyday since this nightmare began. I will be damned if I let this douchebag hurt me or my family ever again. Fuck you Derek Peter, you aren’t going to mess up my holiday and my new year. I have a zero bullshit policy and it still stands. Why hasn’t Derek had an over dose or been shanked in the shower while in jail? Why do evil people get to be evil and not pay for their crimes? If I was stalking him I bet they would have me in that orange jump suit faster than I can say wait. I am tired but I will never give up, quit or be silent about this. Be on alert ladies he is back in Costa Mesa CA. He likes the pool hall on 19th street, don’t be shocked if she shows up at the Lounge one night soon. Maybe he can get his old job back as security :/

MoMo Out!

 

The Beginning of the End

In November I had my day in court with my former friend. After three hours with the mediator we reached an agreement. I didn’t get everything I asked for but who ever does. Our one armed “former friend” in my case paid the bill for her. After court we went to the bank and he gave me a cashiers check. I mailed it that very same day. I was asked more than once if I wanted the check made payable to me. I went to court to get the money owed to the bank in my name. I am so happy one of the boulders is off of my shoulders. One step left and it is over forever. I always use to say forever is as long as it lasts. We had our forever and it ended with me having a knife in my back. My divorce was much easier than this situation.

I have learned that you never really know anyone. That was proven to me by a person that I thought would be a life long friend. I have learned to never loan my name, credit or money to anyone ever again. I will always remember how easy going it was at first, then it went to hell on a bobsled. The person that use to be my BFF is gone now. I was sitting in a room with someone that felt like a total stranger even though we have known one another for over a decade. I didn’t believe anything she said to me. I didn’t really care to make small talk. I just wanted to get the entire thing over with. I will never forgive her for the things she did to me. I will however as time passes try and forget how my best friend fucked me over on so many levels. Quotes of that day: It’s only money right? I will earn more right? I helped you when we were friends. I gave you anything you wanted. You broke my couch so you should pay for part of it. That was when the mediator said break time and stay focused. I was focused from the moment I walked in the door.

In 2013 this will all be a bad dream. The bad memories will fade away. The new memories with my true friends who had my back during all of this drama will make me forget the bad stuff. I am happy that it is at the very end. I am sure they will still stalk my pages and my Blog to see what I say next. Just remember freedom of speech is my constitutional right. I lived this hell on earth for a very long time. I am thankful that I am at a peaceful place. I am thankful for all that I have been blessed with. Time heals all wounds. Derek Peter is in jail. Maybe this time they will keep him or he will drop the soap in the shower. I truly hope that everyone I know has a wonderful New Year. I am sure it will be a much better year.

MoMo Out!

 

P.S.

Completely random event happened yesterday. A customer comes to our pop up store at the Farmers Market. She starts asking about the clothing. Then asked me if I go to BBW Clubs. I told her I go to Bounce and Curves. Out of the blue she told me that she is a fan of my Blog. I said, ok so you know who I am. She said yes and she said that she had a really bad experience at the Lounge in OC. I started to laugh and so did she. I was told that the promoter was yelling at the photographer to stop taking photos of her, because she was better looking than the said promoter. Her and her friends drove two hours to be treated like shit. Her words not mine. My favorite line of the conversation was and I quote “I think she is just jealous of me because I am better looking than her.” Random person with a not so random experience. People I stand by my Blog. My point has been made now let’s move on.

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