In November I had my day in court with my former friend. After three hours with the mediator we reached an agreement. I didn’t get everything I asked for but who ever does. Our one armed “former friend” in my case paid the bill for her. After court we went to the bank and he gave me a cashiers check. I mailed it that very same day. I was asked more than once if I wanted the check made payable to me. I went to court to get the money owed to the bank in my name. I am so happy one of the boulders is off of my shoulders. One step left and it is over forever. I always use to say forever is as long as it lasts. We had our forever and it ended with me having a knife in my back. My divorce was much easier than this situation.
I have learned that you never really know anyone. That was proven to me by a person that I thought would be a life long friend. I have learned to never loan my name, credit or money to anyone ever again. I will always remember how easy going it was at first, then it went to hell on a bobsled. The person that use to be my BFF is gone now. I was sitting in a room with someone that felt like a total stranger even though we have known one another for over a decade. I didn’t believe anything she said to me. I didn’t really care to make small talk. I just wanted to get the entire thing over with. I will never forgive her for the things she did to me. I will however as time passes try and forget how my best friend fucked me over on so many levels. Quotes of that day: It’s only money right? I will earn more right? I helped you when we were friends. I gave you anything you wanted. You broke my couch so you should pay for part of it. That was when the mediator said break time and stay focused. I was focused from the moment I walked in the door.
In 2013 this will all be a bad dream. The bad memories will fade away. The new memories with my true friends who had my back during all of this drama will make me forget the bad stuff. I am happy that it is at the very end. I am sure they will still stalk my pages and my Blog to see what I say next. Just remember freedom of speech is my constitutional right. I lived this hell on earth for a very long time. I am thankful that I am at a peaceful place. I am thankful for all that I have been blessed with. Time heals all wounds. Derek Peter is in jail. Maybe this time they will keep him or he will drop the soap in the shower. I truly hope that everyone I know has a wonderful New Year. I am sure it will be a much better year.
MoMo Out!
P.S.
Completely random event happened yesterday. A customer comes to our pop up store at the Farmers Market. She starts asking about the clothing. Then asked me if I go to BBW Clubs. I told her I go to Bounce and Curves. Out of the blue she told me that she is a fan of my Blog. I said, ok so you know who I am. She said yes and she said that she had a really bad experience at the Lounge in OC. I started to laugh and so did she. I was told that the promoter was yelling at the photographer to stop taking photos of her, because she was better looking than the said promoter. Her and her friends drove two hours to be treated like shit. Her words not mine. My favorite line of the conversation was and I quote “I think she is just jealous of me because I am better looking than her.” Random person with a not so random experience. People I stand by my Blog. My point has been made now let’s move on.
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