The Restraining Order

On September 28, 2011 I went to the Court House and filed for a temporary restraining order. I had no idea how the process worked. They had aids that will help you fill out the paper work. After that you submit the papers and appear in Court before the Judge later that day. I told the judge that Derek Peter was threatening to kill me and my family. I showed the judge a copy of my phone records and had to play him the voice mail. The order was issued and now Derek had to be served. You take the papers to the Sheriff station which was located in the Court House. I handed them in and a week later found out that they could not serve him because I live in LA County and he lives in Orange County. I was truly afraid for my life and members of my family. He knows where my family lives, and he has met them all. My phone rang for days. If it wasn’t ringing it was a text message from Derek. I was so nervous I would jump when the phone rang. On the 27th when the nightmare began I called the Sheriff and they took a report. They told me to file the restraining order then they could do something about him calling and texting me non stop. I refused to change my number because of him. I just shut my phone off so I didn’t get his calls but that didn’t stop him from leaving voice mails. I woke up one morning to find my tire had been slashed. Below is the text message exchange between Derek and I. Let me remind you all that he was still living with Kathleen Divine as he was doing all of this and she knew about it.
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From: 3108951731
Received: Sep 30, 2011 6:39 AM
Good mornin!
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To: 3108951731
Sent: Sep 30, 2011 8:35 AM
Did you really waste gas money to slit my tires?
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From: 3108951731
Received: Sep 30, 2011 8:36 AM
Nope, free!
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To: 3108951731
Sent: Sep 30, 2011 8:39 AM
You are going to jail
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From: 3108951731
Received: Sep 30, 2011 8:47 AM
Lol!
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To: 3108951731
Sent: Sep 30, 2011 8:49 AM
I just called the cops
------ SMS Text ------
From: 3108951731
Received: Sep 30, 2011 8:50 AM
Ur family better stay out of my town!
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To: 3108951731
Sent: Sep 30, 2011 8:50 AM
Are you still at the pier so they can arrest you?
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To: 3108951731
Sent: Sep 30, 2011 8:51 AM
Oh now your afraid of my family? My mom who is sick from this stress. You are going to jail

Almost a week later the Sheriff department called me to pick up the restraining order because they couldn’t serve him in Orange county. I was forced to call Kathleen Divine and ask for some help. Kathleen told me that she asked Derek to leave and he refused to do so. I was told that when he came home from work his stuff was outside waiting for him. I was also told that he caused a scene and called the cops on Kathleen Divine for kicking him out early. He wasn’t kicked out early but the police made her pay him $200.00 for rent he said was due because she made him move out early. I was not there for any of this so I am only reporting what I was told by Kathleen. I do not know what is true or what is a lie from her anymore. The trust we once had as best friends was broken and lost as far as I was concerned. My nephews drove me down to Kathleen's place so that Ronnie aka the Crack Head was going to do the right thing and help me serve Derek. Derek still trusted Ronnie and he also wanted his pain pills that were left at Kathleen's house. The plan was made and Ronnie met Derek by the Pier in Newport Beach. I waited with my nephews at a near by restaurant till they called and said he had been served. Ronnie and Kathleen met us at the restaurant so that Ronnie could sign the paper that he had served Derek. I had to turn that into the Court house ASAP. Kathleen told Ronnie not to sign it unless I agreed to stay in OC till he violated the order so he could be arrested. Derek did just that within thirty minutes of being served. I called the Sheriff several times over the next couple of weeks. Every violation is a new case. Derek was so strung out on drugs that he thought the Detectives working the case were fake cops calling him.


On October 21, 2011 we were scheduled to go back to court. Derek didn’t show up and I went before the Judge. The Judge had to excuse herself from the case because she is friends with my parents. I was sent over to the other Court room and stood before a new Judge. I handed him a print out of all of the text messages and the CD’s with the voice mails on it. He told me to show him more proof so I was forced to play a voice mail that Derek left me and I was sick to my stomach. I was in a Court room full of complete strangers and they were listening to Derek verbally abuse and threaten me. I was granted a Restraining Order that is good for the next five years. I felt like I was going to throw up. I couldn’t believe that any of this was happening to me. I couldn’t believe that Kathleen Divine had picked Derek over me. The only reason she helped me is because she was afraid he would hurt her as well. I told her to also file a restraining order and she refused. Derek left trash in her mail box with a receipt from the purchase of an icepick. He also left a note saying the nigger will die. Derek started a complete rampage and lost what little mind he had left. Kathleen Divine’s fourth husband Mark Lambert is in prison for threatening to kill her. She knows what I was going through and they still thought I was over reacting. How could she condone the things that Derek was doing to me? How could she condone him and Fiona Hassan having sex across the hall from her? I have no answers to either of those questions. As I was leaving the court room a woman took my hand and told me to be careful. I thanked her for that moment of kindness. There are still people out there with some compassion for others.
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From: 3108951731
Received: Sep 28, 2011 2:31 AM
Im just gettin started on u, cunt!
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From: 3108951731
Received: Sep 28, 2011 2:43 AM
I have been fuk4n fifi in ur bed since the day u finally left us! Kat set it all up and its nice and clean pussy! Gr8 change from ur smell ass! Yum
Yes Derek took the time to send me that text message. He also left a voice mail admitting he slashed my tire. In November Derek was arrested and sentenced to 35 days and served only 4 due to over crowding. He was stalking me on Thanksgiving. He was outside of my house and left half smoked cigarettes at the end of my driveway. I know it was him due to the brand and we don’t smoke. Each case is processed one at a time. I have been waiting for the DA to issue his next warrant for the slashed tire. They have enough evidence with the text messages and the voice mails. The DA is dragging their feet and say they are backed up. This is why women are afraid to go to the Police for domestic violence. They don’t do anything till you are dead half of the time. I can assure you that I will survive and I will not give up till he is in jail for criminal threats. The local DA now knows me by name because I call her office weekly and both Detectives working the case also know me well. The system only works if you don’t give up. Lucky for Derek I am not going to let it go and will be here till it ends. The lies go so deep I have no clue how deep into this Kathleen was involved. I only write what I know happened to me and always show you the proof to back it up. I will not quit and anyone involved with him will also go down. Derek also had all of the oil drained out of my truck so it could kill the engine. He left the evidence in my driveway. I took the truck in and it was bone dry. I did not have a leak and they confirmed it was completely empty. He is such a Douche Bag. Needless to say it but I am not one of those woman who try to work it out and say, but I love him. Fuck Derek Peter, fuck Kathleen Divine and everyone that was involved in this. My life is not a joke you stupid bitches. In therapy I was told I am suffering from PTSD due to the trauma of these events that took place. This is very real and very serious. My life will never be the same again. Give me some time to pull this knife out of my back, it hit a nerve. 


PS. I received a call today from the detective working the Vandalism case and the DA has rejected the case. You can see Derek admits it via text and he also admitted it on a voice mail. I was assured by the detective that we had enough evidence to issue a warrant. If Derek were black he would still be in jail from the first time he was arrested in November 2011. I will be calling the DA’s office again tomorrow. All I have left to say is this is total bullshit. I guess I can go slash his tire, admit it and not go to jail. Yeah right! There are still two open cases left to go and because I am black when the officer took the report he or she put down that Derek is black. Two different officers and two different reports. Don’t even try and say that was an accident. The lead detective came to my house so that I could sign a document that had a copy of Derek’s drivers license in order to verify they had the right person. It is kind of funny that I wrote this Blog a couple of days ago and get a phone call today. I guess I was suppose to share this today. Free Black Derek!



MoMo Out!