Random Losers and The Douchebag of the Week #2

This is the perfect example of the way people have become disconnected from reality due to social media. If I was at the market waiting my turn at the meat counter do you think a perfect stranger would say things to me with no filter at all? I am not saying it wouldn’t happen because strange things do all the time, but the chances are slim.

• JeanBart

hi there

• Me hi
  
• JeanBart how are you ?
  
• JeanBart how are you ?
  
• Me fine
  
• 2:15 AM
• JeanBart great
  
• JeanBart would you like to chat ?
  
• Me we are chatting
  
• JeanBart that's right
  
• JeanBart which topic you enjoy ?
  
• Me how old are you?
  
• JeanBart 35
  
• JeanBart you ?
  
• Me 41
  
• JeanBart good
  
• JeanBart you like younger male ?
  
• JeanBart like 35...
  
• Me that is close enough in age to not make a big deal out of it. If you were 25 then we would have a problem
  
• JeanBart ok
  
• JeanBart now you know I'm adult lol, which topic you enjoy ?
  
• Me we are both adults so what is your point
  
• Me where are you from?
  
• JeanBart France
  
• Me California
  
• JeanBart I love a topic... but afraid you ran away...
  
• Me long way away
  
• JeanBart yes true
  
• Me i am afraid to ask but go ahead and tell me so I can be done
  
• JeanBart if you are afraid... I think you know what I mean... ?
  
• 2:23 AM
• JeanBart right ?
  
• JeanBart that's why you ran away ?
  
• 2:24 AM
• JeanBart please ?
  
• Me what do u want to say?
  
• JeanBart I'm horny.... And I love to share that with you
  
• Me then go fuck yourself

 

• sean S hi
  
• 2:22 AM
• Me hi
  
• 2:27 AM
• sean S hi sorry about that
  
• Me sorry about what?
  
• sean S i left before?
  
• Me so did i
  
• 2:39 AM
• sean S well i love ur pics monique
  
• Me thanks
  
• 2:41 AM
• sean S do u like tall men?
  
• 2:43 AM
• sean S gday

I have zero patience for small talk or chit chat with someone in another country. Unless you plan on booking a flight to California so that you can get to know me, then what is the point? The conversation always goes the same so I just didn’t respond. What woman do you know that would say “no I only like short men”.

July 22
Calvin Naidoo

• I love big women babe

Daniel Everitt

• Hi Dear,i saw your pics it's cute i think is going to be interesting meeting you and knowing more about you

April 13
Eng Salah

• love ur pic
  u r toooo beautiful
  can i add u plz ?

June 24
Uby Mayor

• Hello, my name is Dario, I'm a boy anorexic, weighing only 75 lbs, and I'd like to have a history of great sex with a woman in flesh, who like my bones.
  How much do you weight

June 16
Alok Sharma

• I love Big girl gear..rear n front

July 12
China Mike

• hello can you add me pls

These guys have no clue the photo they saw was one or more of the models in an add for www.biggirlgear.com Who writes to a business page on FB and says these things? As you can see these men do. I have no words to express my disgust with these random losers. In the mean time I will just promote the clothing site, happy shopping.
 
The Douchebag of the week is Kathleen Divine. This is from our last conversation. Of course she has yet to call back to work out the money she owes me. I have of course called, left messages, emails and sent texts. Not one reply since this email. I might have to leave her as the Douchebag of the week till she fixes this problem. It really is a douchebag thing to do, leaving your former best friend drowning in debt that you racked up then promised to pay. My phone rings all day from the bank calling to find out when they will get paid. I have no answers for the bank since Kathleen Divine is avoiding the situation like she always does. Even though age is just a number in her 50 years Kathleen Divine still acts like a child. I am not sure how much longer my body can handle the stress. I have already been in the hospital with congestive heart failure in June. My Lupus is fully active and stress just makes it worse. The pain is unbearable at times. I refuse to die over money and a awful person like Kathleen Divine who Karma will catch up with. How does she sleep at night with all of the negative energy around her? 
7/03/12
From: Kathleen Divine
To: Monique Jurgen
My phone is dead, I am off to bed have to get up at 7:30.
Talk tomorrow night
Kat
 
The latest on Douchebag 1 is below according to the Superior Court website.

Case Summary
Case Number:	11HF3223
OC Pay Number:	6990156
Originating Court:	Harbor - Newport Beach Facility
Defendant:	Peter, Derek William
Demographics:
	Eyes:	Gray
	Hair:	Blond
	Height(ft/in) :	6'6"
	Weight (lbs):	235

Names:
	Last Name	First Name	Middle Name	Type
	Peter	Derek	William	Real Name
	Larrieu	John	Paul	Alias
	Larrieu	John	Paul	Alias

Case Status:
	Status:	Warrant
	Case Stage:
	Release Status:	Fugitive
	Warrant:	Y
	DMV Hold :	N
	Charging Document:	Complaint
	Mandatory Appearance:	Y
	Owner's Resp:	N
	Amendment #:	0

MoMo Out!

Pay Up Kathleen Divine

At the beginning of July 2012 I received an email from Kathleen Divine. The email stated that she had some questions about charges on the credit card bill she has been paying. We exchanged text messages then spoke on the phone. The conversation did not go well at all. She was yelling and screaming at me and accused me of lying to her. I have since then downloaded a copy of every bank statement which shows deposits made and payments made to the credit card. She is under the impression that I still owed a large sum of money on that card. None of which turned out to be true according to the bank statements. If I was trying to lie or cheat her out of the charges that I am being accused of hiding why would I give her full access to the account? Kathleen Divine told me more than once and I quote “people who owe you money always find a reason to be mad at you, so they have an excuse not to pay”.

I am exhausted from the last year of this drama. This drama has made me sick from the stress. I have ended up in the hospital from the stress. I have had Lupus flare up’s from the stress. My ex is still a fugitive and tried to kill me a few months ago by running me off of the road. Kathleen Divine didn’t even care when I told her that Derek tried to run me and my Mom off the freeway. Kathleen Divine has made threats in regards to my Mom. My one and only Mom who treated Kathleen Divine like she was part of our family. My Mom still has photos of me and Kathleen Divine together in frames around the house. My Mom loved Kathleen and I know she is just broken hearted about everything that happened.

All bets are off when you bring in the family, kids or anyone blood related during a feud. Lets do a recap shall me. I charged an $1800.00 Dell for Kathleen Divine in December 2010 and in August of 2011 Kathleen Divine mailed it back to me and I was forced to pay for it. Kathleen Divine paid a total of $200.00 from December 2010 to July 2011. She had the nerve to ask for her money back during our phone call. Kathleen Divine was hurting financially and as her former BFF I helped her when ever she needed help. According to Kathleen Divine appearances and having the best of everything is the only way to live life. She loved having a Newport Coast zip code. From there she rented a house in Orange. Not Orange Hills like she claims just because the Orange Hills restaurant was down the street. The car is just for looks and image.

Now from the rental house in Orange she has moved to Santa Ana, CA. The best part is she now lives in a Senior Mobile Home Park. The very same mobile home park her parents live in. She has moved into the spot right around the corner from them. Of course Kathleen Divine lives off the grid and has nothing in her name. Her parents purchased the mobile home for her. Two years ago when they suggested to her that she move into the park she had a fit. I guess business is not as good as she claims. If it was she wouldn’t owe me money and she sure as hell wouldn’t be living in a Mobile Home Park for Seniors. Karma does have a way of working things out. Good luck living the fake lifestyle from a mobile home, with the fake hair that you still owe for on my credit card. My credit score may have dropped because of Kathleen Divine but my life is so much better without her in it. I hope everyone does not think I am going to walk away and let Kathleen Divine fuck me out of more money. My July email to Kathleen Divine is below. She won’t read my emails but I know she reads my Blog. I guess instead of emailing Kathleen Divine I should just post it here. The payments you made didn’t put a dent in your balance Ms. Divine. Living in a senior park might have it’s perks, you might meet a rich older man.
MoMo Out!

FW: Account Alert: Your Statement Is Ready‏

7/09/12
To Kathleen Divine
The new bill is due on August 1, 2012 maybe you need to mail it in now so you have time for it to process. However you do it just get it done. The bank isn't going to lower the interest rate because you paid it late once. I am not going to fight or argue with you anymore. If the bill isn't paid be ready for the long drive out here to go to court.
Monique
> Date: Sat, 7 Jul 2012 16:18:04 +0000
> From: paperlesssndr@mytravelocityrewards.com
> To:
> Subject: Account Alert: Your Statement Is Ready
>
> Re: Your Travelocity Rewards American Express(R) Card account ending in 0506
>
> Dear MONIQUE,
>
>
> This Account Alert is a notification that your statement is now
> available online. Log in to www.MyTravelocityRewards.com to view your
> statement or schedule an online payment.
>
> * Minimum Payment Due: $292.13
> * Payment Due Date: 08/01/2012
> * Ending balance as of your last statement: $4056.71

Douchebag Update

Derek Peter the douchebag AKA John Paul Larrieu is now a fugitive. I would laugh out loud but it isn’t funny. It has never been funny, but some people still seem to think I am over reacting. By the way those people can kiss my ass. They have no idea the hell I have been through. Derek is the kind of guy that can get away with murder. I just don’t want to be the one who has the crime scene tape outside of my house. The detective working the criminal threats case told me that it was solid. He could possibly receive a sentence of seven to ten years if convicted. He was convicted and if you click on the photo you can see his entire case summary. I guess it is OK to tell your ex that you are going to kill them, their parents, brothers and my little 3, 5 and 6 year old niece and nephews. I don’t think it is OK in any way. I have been fighting the system for almost a year. The system does not help the victim. The system only helps you when you are dead or almost dead. The system is the entire reason why women die from domestic violence every single day. The system is also the reason there are women in jail who killed their husband or boyfriend because she got sick and tired of being abused. I was starting to sleep at night when I found out he was in jail. I went on vacation and I knew he couldn’t find me out of the country. Now that I am back I have tried to keep that relaxed Island vibe. It was working but now he is a fugitive. That just made me laugh out loud saying it a second time “fugitive”. See I can still see the humor in this and how insane the entire thing is. I still stand by my prior statement, which is if Derek was a black man he would have already been in jail doing hard time. But since he is a white man he was let go due to over crowding in our prison system. In two reports he is listed as a black male. That was the reporting officer making the assumption while taking the report that because I am black that means my boyfriend is also black. Free Black Derek, he might be doing time for the wrong crime.  
          
Ladies for the record it is not OK to ever be abused by your mate. No verbal, mental, emotional or physical abuse is ever OK at any time during or after a relationship. Men it is not OK to stalk, threaten, verbally, mentally, emotionally or physically abuse your mate. Treat the one you are with how you would like to be treated. I hope that includes love, kindness, compassion and respect. If it isn’t working out for one person or the other then get out while you still can and never look back. I have to mention this to be fair to the men. Ladies try your best not to abuse your mate. I know at times you want to hit him with a pot of hot oil, but they aren’t worth going to jail for domestic violence. Remember there is something called self defense. In that case all bets are off kick his ass. That will conclude my public service announcements.
MoMo Out!

Caribbean Sunrise

One morning last week I woke up just before the sun was about to rise . I was on vacation in ST. Thomas USVI, the Island where I was born. It was good to be back home with my entire family. I sat outside on the patio alone and took photos of the sunrise. I hope you enjoy the photos as much as I enjoyed watching it happen. That was a moment that I will always remember. I can check that off of my bucket list. The sky was on fire at times.
Blessings
MoMo

ST. Thomas USVI Sunrise 

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Lo Lo went Low

Since my Blog post called “How Low can Lo Lo Go” she showed us how low she is willing to go. Last year at this very time, Lori was telling me how awful the things that Kathleen Divine did to me were. She also told me that she could never ever trust Kathleen Divine again. Lori also told me that she is sure that one night a few years back  Kathleen Divine was seen kissing her ex Brian at her Lounge. I did not see the alleged kiss happen. Other people we both know did see it happen. I can’t say it did or it did not happen. All I have is the he said she said from Lori. Plus I really don’t give a shit about Brian or Kathleen. Brian is a complete Douchebag. Brian is the douche of the week for sure. I am sure by now Lori has taken Brian back, she always repeats the past.

In January Lori, Jessica and I went to Club Bounce when it was in Whittier. We stayed at the Days Inn next door and just walked over. Lori waited till the day of to confirm that she would be joining us. Jessica was meeting her date at the club and they were off doing their own thing that night. Lori and I hung out with all sorts of people, drank, laughed and had a good time. The next morning Lori sat there telling Jessica all about Brian and the bad things he had done to her. Lori will tell anyone that will listen what a scum bag Brian is. Jessica and Lori made plans to hang out more often. They had only met a few times socially. Lori wanted Jessica to jump when ever she called or sent a text. That’s not how Jess likes to roll. By the way we split the room three ways and Lori is telling people she paid for the room. Be glad Jessica let you share her space since she didn’t even know you that well.

Jessica couldn’t handle how demanding Lori was and told her this wasn’t working for her. Jessica made it clear that everything was cool in a social setting but she didn’t want to be close friends with her. I was told by both of them and the story was the same, just the way each of them felt was different. Lori felt ignored and Jessica felt pressured. No big deal they handled it in their own way. I stayed out of it and was friends with both of them. None of the things Lori said about Jess is true, but to Lori it means the world to try and hurt her.

The guy Jessica was dating ran into Lori last weekend at that shit hole of a Lounge in Costa Mesa. Lori began to cock block him with the woman he was talking to, his words not mine. Lori then went on to say that Jessica was a whore that picks up strangers at clubs just for sex and that she is a bad person. Lori does not know Jessica on a personal level at all. The guy was in shock and didn’t believe a word she said. Lori was also mad that he didn’t respond to her advances. He thought that Lori and Jessica were close friends. He called Jessica and told her that she needed to reevaluate her friendship. At first Jess didn’t know it was Lori till he described her. Now we have Lori back in the enemy camp where she swore to God that she would never go back to. She also said how she would never trust Kathleen Divine again yet she is hanging with her at her lounge. I am sure she will be back on TV night with Kathleen sitting on the couch just to use her DVR.

Lori, you and I both know you lied when you said those things about Jessica. If you Google Jessica you won’t find anything. If you Google Marley Bobbin aka Lori Dempsey you will of course find her porn clips and loads of porn photos. You might want to rethink the things you say about people Lori. You have just as many skeletons in your closet that most internet whores do. Lori you need to stop being this insane person. You have so much baggage you don’t know what to even do with it. You begged Lisa to take you back as a friend and you fucked her over like you always do going back and forth between her and Kathleen Divine. Lori you told me that my friends are shady, I guess that also includes you since we were friends for the last decade. What you did to Jessica is shady, disloyal, and not to mention just fucked up. I know you did it to try and indirectly hurt me. There is nothing you can do or say about me that is going to get to me Lori. I have grown a tough skin in the last year. Talk all the shit you want about me but leave my friends out of it.

Recently it was Jessica by my bedside in the ER when I had Pneumonia and Congestive Heart Failure. Jessica called 911 and asked for an ambulance to get me. Jessica came back after being up all night with me in the ER the next day. She sat by my bedside keeping me company, making me laugh and being my friend. That is what real friends do. Becca and Mel also came to see me and picked up my favorite soup from our Mexican place. In all the years I have know you Lori not once have you ever even sent a text that said feel better soon Mo. You have never once come to see me while I was in the hospital that is only about fifteen minutes from your house. You were never there for me. You were there when you needed someone to vent to, gossip, shop and just talking shit about the people in your life.

Lori bottom line is you are in denial and just as fucked up as the rest of us so get over yourself. I am not nor will I ever be your friend again. Your friends are fake and you use to hate Heather and Ashley, now they are your new BFF’s. You hated Kathleen last year now you are back at her club and hanging out with her. I don’t let people come back so just stay gone. You use to love Lisa and act like she was your BFF, now you stabbed her in the back as well. If you ask me Lori you’re the shady one and the disloyal one. Enjoy your spot back in the entourage till you get mad at Kathleen for talking down to you. Just wait Kathleen will also pick on you about your clothes, your thighs, Botox, tanning, all the tattoos and anything else she doesn’t like about you. I guess you just enjoy the abuse.
MoMo out!
 
Photos of us the night we went to Bounce. Seriously how can anyone say Jess is a bad person, just look at her. Love you Jess.
Me, Jessica & Lori

Me, Lisa & Lori

The Douchebag is in Jail

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Results for booking number: 2710957
Inmate Name:
PETER , DEREK WILLIAM
Date of Birth:
03-11-1969
Next Appearance Date:
07-11-2012
Sex:
Male
Next Appearance Court:
HARBOR JUSTICE CENTER
Race:
White
Custody Status:
In Custody
Height:
6' 06"
Bail Amount:
$45,000.00
Weight:
210
Arrested on:
07-09-2012
Hair Color:
Blond
Housing Location:Central Mens Jail
Eye Color:
  Grey

Occupation:
UNEMPLOYED

Thank you sweet Baby Jesus for answering my prayers. Now please let him be convicted of this felony charge. The world will be a better place with him off of the streets. Yes, I am doing the happy dance. I can sleep tonight and not worry that he is going to shoot me through my window. I can get in the car tomorrow and not wonder if it will blow up or that he might try and run me off the road again. I hope this drama has a happy ending. That happy ending being Derek doing many many years in prison and Kathleen Divine decides to pay the credit card she ran up in my name. Eleven days ago she decided that she wasn’t going to pay it anymore. Those late fees and the high interest will add up quickly. I know I will win and she will have to pay it and all of the late fees plus interest when I sue her. I am invested in this till the very end and I know I am not the bad guy here. I also do not care what people think about my Blog. I am really tired of the anonymous bitchy messages. I would take you seriously if you had the balls to speak up and not hide. Love it or hate it you are still here reading it. The numbers don’t lie.
MoMo Out!

Happy 4th of July or Not!!!

Last year on the 4th of July was the end of my relationship and the ending of my friendship with my former BFF. Now that we are at the one year mark here is what’s going on. In June Derek tried to run me and my Mom off of the road. I am no longer friends with Morgan, Laura, Lori and Fiona who I will forever call a dirty whore for sleeping with Derek before my side of the bed was cold. All of the people who were in my close circle back then are all gone. The house has been cleaned and there is no more cobwebs in my corners. The end of friendships and relationships can of course be really rough. I was over Derek Peter the day we broke up. I never shed one tear over that man. All I want now is for someone in OC to call the police and turn him in. He is wanted and has a warrant out for his arrest. I would like to close that chapter with Derek behind bars where he cant hurt or stalk me and my family.

There were plenty of “you said”, “I said” being passed back and forth between me and Kathleen Divine. I want to forget about her but there is still money between us. I have come to the conclusion that she will in the end do as she always does and justify her bad choices with more bad choices. I am really tired emotionally and physically. The last year of my life has been full of anger, betrayal, hate, lies, attacks, back stabbing and I am sure there are things I don’t know about. At this point I don’t care about anything I don’t already know. At the OC Bash I was the bigger person and went over to Morgan and gave her two bags of cookies that Tracy was selling at the vendor fair. I purchased what was left and gave them out to people at the party that night. I considered that a jester that we could be in the same room and be cordial. I was wrong and Morgan said I was at the table next to her huddled in a circle of Team MoMo. I am Team MoMo. I am MoMo so if I am at a table with friends at a party then so be it. I was all alone when I walked up to Morgan and offered her the cookies.

With or without my friends I will forever be Team MoMo. I will always be on my own team and if it has team mates or it’s just me I am ok with all of that. I was born alone and one day I will die alone. That is called life. I am happy to be home with my parents and I could care less who makes fun of me for living at home. If you had a family as loving, caring, giving and dedicated as I do, you would be living at home too. I don’t need to justify who I live with. I live in a beautiful home with people who love and take care of me. If I ever needed anything at all I can call anyone in my family and they would be here for me any time of the day or night. As I was being wheeled to ICU in 2008 after my heart stopped, my entire family was in the waiting room as I passed by. It made me cry to see how much love I have around me and how many people care about me. My great niece and nephew were too little to be allowed to come see me but they were there and said get better Ammo, that’s before they could say Aunt Mo.

No matter how much hate mail you send me it won’t matter. I rise above my haters and when you have the balls to contact me with out being an anonymous hater then your posts will be allowed. Till then I will not let people abuse me in secret on my own Blog. By now if you have been reading it you know I am not stupid and if I can speak freely so can you. The only difference is I am not hiding my comments, my feelings or anything else. I am sure my Blog has opened a lot of eyes. I have been threatened with law suits, but no papers from a lawyer yet since I started Blogging in January. You have my address so you know where to send the papers or maybe send the money to the credit card company instead of threatening to sue me Kathleen. The threats to turn my Mom, niece, friends in for any kind of fraud is bullshit and you know it. You are more than welcome to threaten me all you want but leave my family out of it. How desperate can you really be to go there. You yourself admitted to having my bank account number, social security number and lots of my personal info. If anything happens they will know where to start the fraud investigation. Identity theft is a serious crime these days.

I told you everything I felt in person, on the phone, via text and via email. I have nothing to hide. I have no fear of you and your threats. I am over all of it, but I will not let you bully or abuse me anymore. This is the part where we agree to disagree. I am tired of the BS. I am going to put an end to this by filing a law suit, which I did not do because you were paying your bill. Even if I never get paid I know I will be awarded a judgment. This wasn’t how I wanted to spend the last year of my life. I learned a lot, healed as much as I could, still in therapy and still a work in progress. True friends don’t ever remind you of things they have done for you. That is where you and I differ the most Kathleen Divine. I help out of love, you help so you can bargain with it later. In the end my credit score took a hit but that can be rebuilt, our friendship can never be repaired. It is over and has been for a year now. I hope everyone out there has a Happy 4th of July.

MoMo Out!