Random Losers & The Douchebag of the Week

I posted these as they were written to me on Facebook. I know how to use spell check but as you will see these men don’t. Ladies if you know a douchebag and have proof of his douchebag ways please feel free to post a comment. Or if you would like to nominate someone to be the douchebag of the week write to me. Remember you need proof of what he did to you. According to the urban dictionary this is the definition of a Douchebag.
Thesaurus for douchebag:
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1. Douchebag
An individual who has an over-inflated sense of self worth, compounded by a low level of intelligence, behaving ridiculously in front of colleagues with no sense of how moronic he appears.


May 11
Prince Oheneba Ofori Amoako

• HELLO PRINCESS
  I GUESS YOU DOING GREAT ,ANYWAY AM PRINCE BY NAME , I JUST LOOK THROUGH PROFILES AND GOT TO SEE YOU..I THOUGHT OF NOTHING BUT HONESTLY FELT TO SEND YOU A NOTE TO REQUEST A PERMISSION TO BE A FRIEND TO YOU ..IT WILL REALLY BE A PLEASURE TO HAVE SUCH A TREMENDOUS LOOKING LADY LIKE YOU REPLY ME WITH EVEN HI....I WILL BE LOGGING IN EACH AND EVERY SECOND TO CHECK MY IN BOX IN OTHER TO SEE IF MY DREAM HAS REALLY COME TRUE TO RECEIVE A MESSAGE FROM A WOMAN LIKE YOU...if YOU LIKE ME JUST ADD ME AND TALK TO ME
  UNTIL I HEAR FROM YOU ..TAKE VERY GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF AND HAVE A GREAT DAY .
  
• Julius Atta
  
  • HELLO BABE!
    THANKX 4 D ADD!
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  June 28, 2010
  Monique Jurgen
  
  • No problem
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  June 6
  Julius Atta
  
  • Dear monique, let them say wot they like about you! I like you. One man's meat is anoda man's poison. You are my heart desire because you are fat. I am your secret admirer. Love you!
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June 3
Kelechi Victor Asagwara

• hw r u doin want to get to knw nd make u my queen.reply luv u

June 2
Edward Maina

• hii Monique, i want to tell u, u look cute n one of your pics the one you are sitting on the bed,reallly you are allow me to tell you ,beautifull,sure. 

 
This is the douchebag of the week “Bryan Addison”

• Bryan Addison
  
  • we talked briefly at the butterfly lounge once, your a classy woman
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  May 29
  Bryan Addison
  
  • would you like to have your feet licked and your toes sucked?
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  May 30
  Monique Jurgen
  
  • If you think I am so classy then why are you treating me like some sort of trick? I don't know you on any sort of intimate level so you need to show me some basic respect. If I was into those things now you will never know the answer. WTF ever happened to romance!
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  May 30
  Bryan Addison
  
  • we can have romance
    
  • i would love romance if i didnt think you would break my heart but i heard that yopur a player
    
  • i thought all you would be interested from me in is a toe sucking
    
  • i am the toe sucker for the bbw's
    
  • i have even licked goddess pattys feet
    
  • katheryn told me i could lick feet at her club  (AKA. Kathleen Divine)
    
  • i would love romance but i am not so sure your interested in that from me
    
  • basicly i am a muscle bound whore for bbw's
• 
  May 30
  Monique Jurgen
  
  • I am not a player and don't believe everything you hear. I am not interested in anything with you at all. I am sure you will find plenty of other women who are into you and the feet thing. Bye.
• 
  May 30
  Bryan Addison
  
  • im sorry if i disrespected you goodbye

On June 14, 2012 I posted a photo of the man who plays the part of Eric Northman on True Blood. I think that man is hot hot hot. Once I posted it Bryan Addison had to add in his 2 cents.
Hot!

Not Hot!

• Bryan Addison thats a hot guy!! lol
• Yesterday at 12:44am · Like
  
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  Monique Jurgen Don't be such a hater Bryan just because you aren't hot.

• Yesterday at 12:48am · Like · 1
  
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  Bryan Addison i am nhot a hater i said hes hot and cause what your not either lol
  Yesterday at 12:49am · Like
  
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  Bryan Addison monique i want to thankyou i just realized something I have a better chance of getting with shannen doherty than you do of getting with him lol
  Yesterday at 12:52am · Like
  
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  Zenon A guy who shaves or waxes his armpits. Impressive. ;-)
  Yesterday at 1:09am via mobile · Like
  
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  Bryan Addison he shaves his pubic hair also, sexy that turns me on lol
  Yesterday at 1:10am · Like
  
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  Bryan Addison i wonder if hes ever been dumped by a woman lol
  Yesterday at 1:11am · Like
  
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  Monique Jurgen OMG I love white men. Was once married to a white man.
  Yesterday at 1:46am · Like · 1
  
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  Bryan Addison then he dumped you lol
  Yesterday at 1:57am · Like
  
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  Monique Jurgen WTF is wrong with you Bryan Addison? Are you mad I rejected you because you have zero respect for women. I left my ex husband so shut your mouth because you don't know me. Once you see this you can go fuck yourself! Loser
  17 hours ago · Like
  
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  Bryan Addison no he left you and no you didnt reject me its a joke I say it to all the fat whales just ask all the girls at the club i said it to all them. You did leave you and the next guy will leave you after you finish blowing him, so start to enjoy sucking dick cause thats what you hyave to do to get the guy to stay and when you think hes in love with you just remember anyone with a mouth can do what you do for him lol
  11 hours ago · Like
  
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  Bryan Addison and i will go fuck my self theres no shame in that only when i do it i will be thinking of shannen doherty instead of fat whales lol
  11 hours ago · Like
  
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  Bryan Addison The club i go to, if you walked in the room all of the guys would roll on the floor laughing, the same guys you think are hot would roll on the floor laughing at you if you walked in their club. So be nice to those guys at the fat girl club you fat whale hoe take what you can get lol
  10 hours ago · Like

Ladies this is just one drop in the bucket of douchebags. I believe there is an epidemic that is world wide. I have no idea where they have sent the good men. If I knew I would surly tell all of you single women who are holding out for a good one. As of July 4, 2012 I will reach the one year mark of being single. Every time I think maybe I am ready to start just talking to a man they break out the douchebag card. I wonder how many card carrying members there are in the douchebag league? I know the men who read my Blog will be quick to judge and defend men by saying “we aren’t all bad guys.” I hope to one day meet one of the good men. I am in no way holding my breath on that one. I think my odds of winning the lottery would have a better shot. I have been over men for the last year. I see no signs of men coming back into my life. I really am happy without a man in my life. I have my family and friends who are there for me through thick and thin. If I never date again, never have another boyfriend or another husband I am truly ok with that. My life is still a work in progress. I live for me and I like doing what I want when I want to. Just the thought of being used, lied to or taken advantage of again by some douchebag is enough to keep me away from men all together. I rather be alone than with someone who doesn’t make me happy. Derek was as sweet as apple pie when I first met him in early 2011. He met my family, hung out with all of us, played with the little kids in the family and told me every day how much he loved me. Then he decided to take his bipolar crazy ass off of his meds. He went into a manic episode, stalked me, started using drugs, slashed my tire, drained all of the oil out of my truck and threatened to kill me and my entire family. Even the little ones who are now 5 & 6 years old, he said he would kill unless I did what ever he said. Being the strong woman that I am, I changed his rules, got the restraining order, reported every violation and the DA dropped the charges against him for the vandalism case. Even with his admission of the crime the DA dropped the ball. Last week in Florida a woman was set on fire by her ex shortly after a judge had denied her restraining order. Ladies you have to fight for yourself and never let a man treat you less than you are worth. If you don’t have self-respect and know your worth then why would a man give a shit about you or your feelings. Needless to say it would take an act of God to get me to trust any man ever again. I just wait for the let down and they always do something to let me down. I am done with all of that. I take care of myself and I don’t need any man to help me do that. Life is good now and I vowed to myself that if I am ever in a situation that is going bad I am just going to leave like I did with Derek. He did serve 4 days of a 35 day sentence for violating the restraining order. Thank you Kathleen Divine for letting my ex live with you while he was stalking me. On a happy note there is a warrant out for his arrest. I don’t have all of the details but as long as he goes to jail I will take any charge that will get him put away. I am not a man hater. I have a few male friends who I can talk to openly and they are always giving me advice about the games men play. I already know the games and I am not playing.
MoMo Out!
 
Personal Information from www.ocsd.org 
Peter, Derek William
DOB:
03/11/1969
Sex:
Male
Race:
White
Height:
6' 06"
Weight:
235
Hair:
Blonde
Eye:
GRY
Warrant File Number: 03446988
Type of Warrant:
Bench Warrant
Court of Issue:
Harbor Justice Center - Newport Beach
Court Warrant Number:
11HF3223
Court Appearance Condition:
Mandatory
Warrant Degree:
Felony
Charge 1:
POSS DANGEROUS DRUGS
Bail Amount:
$ 25000.00

My Review of the OC BBW Bash 2012

This was the first ever BBW Bash in Orange County California. It was held at the Crown Plaza Hotel in Irvine, California. The hotel was nice, clean and had easy access to all of the events. The events were held in the ballrooms on the second floor. You took the elevator down to the party and it was right around the corner from the elevator. There was plenty of SSBBW friendly access all over the hotel and in the ballrooms. The Friday night party was hosted by Club Catalina. The theme was Jersey night. The majority of the party people there wore their favorite teams jersey. The party was not very well attended and a few people had their own little boycott going on in the lobby area as you get off of the elevator. I didn’t get into the personal reasons why they didn’t like Club Catalina, but it was their choice to party else where in the hotel. I can honestly say her DJ this time was good. It was a new DJ that she hired and I did not get his name. The after party was where all of the wild times happened. People loved the after parties and the hotel was really cool about letting the Bash have the after parties on the second floor outside in the lobby area after the Bash parties ended. I wish I had more to report on her party but the people just aren’t into her club vibe. This is what people were saying. It is not just my personal opinion. Stu was a great host and kept things running smoothly.

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 Saturday morning was the vendor fair. There were a variety of vendors to shop with. The turn out of shoppers was not good at all. After months of promoting the vendor fair, not that many people came out to shop. I have to give the vendor fair a sad face. It is so much work setting up a booth starting at 8am to be ready for shoppers by 10am. Breaking down, packing up and re packing your vehicle with merchandise is a ton of work for a little bit of money. Thank goodness Team Mo Mo was there to help out. Over the course of the last few months myself and Satu of Plush Cat Style promoted the hell out of the vendor fair. All of the vendor fairs are open to the public at no charge. Even if you don’t attend the bash you can still come out and shop. At least that was our hope when we signed up. I have been to hundreds of vendor fairs over the last 12 years. Some have been better than others and some you will never go back to. The hope is to at least break even and not loose any money. The real hope is that you sell everything you packed up and not have to take it home with you. I have yet to attend that vendor fair where we sell out. I will forever hold out hope for that day. Take a moment and Like Big Girl Gear on Face Book. https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/BigGirlGearcom/204611972911610

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The Bash dinner was at 6pm on Saturday night. I worked all day and still found time to dress for dinner. Needless to say there were people in shorts, t-shirts, flip flops etc. I give up on people dressing for dinner. I guess it was just how I was raised, but you should dress for dinner. How often do we get to dress up for just a few hours then you can change into party clothes? Not often enough if you ask me. A nice button down shirt and real pants wont kill the men to wear it for as long as it takes you to finish dinner. All I know is I take the time and I do it for me. I don’t do it to impress other people. I feel good when I believe I look good, it’s just that simple. After dinner we relaxed till it was party time. The dinner was sit down with table service. I love that and I enjoyed my dinner. The food was really good except the strange cheesy crouton on my salad. Of course I took a bite then my friend said don’t eat that you wont like it. I was forced to eat it since it was already in my mouth…lol. If she had only taken her bite sooner I would have been spared the torture of the cheesy crouton. The dinner was excellent and the cheesy crouton was just something we laughed about later on. 

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The Saturday night party was fun. DJ T. Rock from Club Plush was keeping people on the dance floor. He was a really good DJ. There was a live feed happening right from the party. I took a moment to get on cam and say hello to all the party people who were missing out. The party had much more people than the Friday night party. The after party was wild and crazy. People had a really good time and probably drank way too much. It was a three day weekend so party on.

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By Sunday I was tired and ready to go home for personal reasons. I put on my big girl panties, got dolled up, made something with Vodka to drink and did it all over again. All in all I had a good time at the Bash because I was able to see old friends. I also made some new ones. I was really happy to see some of my old friends from OC. I shared a room with one too many women. Never ever again will I make that mistake. It was like too many cooks spoil the pot. Too many women in one room doing hair and makeup is no good. I need down time as I am getting ready to go out. I like to take my time getting ready as I have a cocktail and I am in a good mood when I get to the party. I had to leave my own room for down time. Never again, I learn fast. I hope if there is another OC BBW Bash next year that more people will attend. All Bashes start off slow because people don’t like to take a chance on new events in our community. I vote for taking a chance and you only live once so enjoy life. If everyone wants any Bash to grow it needs YOU the people of the BBW Community to support it. Also please support the independent vendors within our community. We are mostly one person running the business and we work hard for no money so you better treat us right, as Donna Summer would say. Stu has a good heart and is working hard to give us more options in the BBW Community. He can’t do it without YOU the people, so try a new event when one is in your area. If there aren’t any in your area then find one that would be a good place for a mini vacation and incorporate the Bash into your trip. Sorry I didn’t take more photos on Sunday. I was busy having fun the last night there with my best friends.
MoMo out!

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